- a student who is often late for his morning class
focus?
- morning or bedtime routine
- 4 key questions
- share with me a typical morning preparing to come to the school
- can you tell me about what has happened as a result of being late for these classes? what are the costs / benefits to you of either allowing the problem to continue or solving the problem?
- of the many things that you do as preparation for coming to class in the morning, which are likely to be the biggest reasons for causing you to be late?
- what changes have you made to deal with the problem? why are they not working?
- 4 key questions / responses
- share with me a typical morning preparing to come the University
- get up at 0610 ... get washed ... have breakfast ... leave the house 0650
- leave for school -70 km drive .. deal with traffic ... find parking ... get to class often late because of it (good eye contact; matter of fact replies)
- probed further
- why not get up sooner to leave sooner?)
- am getting up at 0445 to go pray
- then go back to bed ... to catch more sleep ... but often have difficulty getting up at 0600 because of it (good eye contact; matter of fact replies .. some delay in response - reflection?)
- probed further
- why do you not get enough sleep?
- tell me about the night before
- get to bed often at midnight .... if I go to bed at 2300 seem to be ok (realization that the problem would be addressed with more sleep) (good eye contact; matter of fact replies .. some delay in response - reflection?)
- probed further
- why do you not go to be earlier if you know it is better?)
- has to work for his father or brother ... doing work no one else can or knows how to do
- finish day of classes at University at 1800 then have a 70 km drive back home .. often arriving at 1900 or later due to traffic .. then asked to work by his father (good eye contact; matter of fact replies .. some delay in response - reflection?)
- can you tell me about what has happened as a result of being late for these classes? what are the costs / benefits to you of either allowing the problem to continue or solving the problem?
- feel badly about getting to class late
- want to be an accountant.. want to finish as soon as I can (good eye contact ... more emotion in reply)
- of the many things that you do as preparation for coming to class in the morning, which are likely to be the biggest reasons for causing you to be late?
- never got to this question.. because the probing unearthed more than enough
- what changes have you made to deal with the problem? why are they not working?
- never got to this question.. because the probing unearthed more than enough
- key takeaways
- key issues
- negotiating w/ people to earn their support / respect
- father / brother
- need for sleep and time to achieve your goal
- manage time .. too many demands.. in too short a time
- learn ways to prioritize so that you address your needs / goals first .... cost / benefit analysis
- task lists
- deadlines
- manage distractions / time killers / technology
- identify where you are losing time
- phone calls
- mobile phone chatting
- gaming
- clarify purpose / long term goal to ensure you make it your focus
- visualize .. manifest it so it is always around you
- logo
- poster
- shared with father / brother
- user is sleep deprived yet driving long distances and risking losing the school term
know your goal
- need to focus on getting adequate sleep so that he can then have the energy / drive to address the other matters - negotiating with father; focusing on his goals; managing time
- motivated to be an accountant
- get what you need to succeed
- enough sleep
- not lose school term
- safely drive to school
- have energy to study / practice
development of prototype?
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